Hey everyone, we are most of the times surrounded by people who share their experiences with us and advice us on taking decisions and making choices in life.
But how many times do we actually follow their advice. Yes ive been through this and am sure most of you have as well.
So what are the things we must learn and understand with time and age
1: Not everyone will have the same perception and we must listen and appreciate others school of thought. This is especially vital when you form relationships either with your partner or your children.
God has made us different and for a reason we all look and feel different so how is it possible to think alike?
We often get into arguments saying we are right. This is to be done this way. This is the correct way. Happens all the time. But how do we stop this?
Learn the practice of valuing others opinion and also you must feel your opinion as equally important.
Rather than getting negative and offended about it, use the phrases such as:
- It could be how you are saying
- You could be right as well
- I am unsure I feel anyone of us could be right
2: Materialistic happiness is Temporary and we must find happiness with what we have. Failed to do so will leave oneself in extreme disappointments in life and lead to anxiety and depression.
It’s good to go with the flow and at times give importance to materialism as it brings the feeling of confidence and self-satisfaction. But unfortunately this happiness does not last very long and you keep looking for new things that can give you some happiness again.
But for how long are we going to keep looking for happiness in things? why can’t we rather just find happiness or create happiness around us with whatever we have.
3: Not everything in life is achievable and its completely alright to at times fail, loose, quit and lack behind.
sometimes you just need to sit back and watch the ones you are competing with. This will give u a better idea of the people around you and the energy they pocess.
The people who lead the first place are all by themselves, the followers are greater in strength and number so you are never alone if you are behind.
4: Everyone is fighting their own battle and we must not misunderstand their actions and words
As we grow and face some of our own problems in life and how they have altered our behaviour and thinking, we started to realise that everyone is facing some or the other difficulty and it does influence their behaviour and actions. So instead of getting offended you should always show empathy towards every human.
5: We must learn and accept that people change with time and situations and we do as well.
This is probably the most important one. We often complain saying hr has changed or she has changed. But aren’t we suppose to change?
Change is an inevitable part of life. So accept that everyone’s looks, behaviour , choices, and circumstances will change no matter what. YOU CANT STOP THE CHANGING PROCESS SO DONT WASTE TIME TRYING.
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